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What a Week!!


It has been one amazing week! The Desire Map Workshops launched last Wednesday and my feet have hardly touched the ground since.

This stuff goes deep. It makes you reassess everything. The Universe has said a great big “YES” – this is what I am meant to be doing.

My workshops and my inbox are filling up as well as my heart as I help launch this shining work into the world.

2015 – the year of the Goddess – the year that women say “yes” to their own desires and feelings – the year that we join together and speak with our souls.

Want to join me? You can find all the details about my Desire Map workshops & my Licensee bonuses on my website or by visiting my direct Licensee Affiliate Link.

TDMDanielleH x


More than I imagined…

WOW!  I’ve been so excited about my Desire Map License and then thought long and hard about my own bonuses.  What I hadn’t prepared myself for was the positive effect that my leap would have on everything else that I do…  So, here’s my last 24 hours in a nutshell:

  • A licensee who already signed up but loved my bonuses has contacted me & wants my technical help – putting on my soul-inspired Web Goddess hat
  • My wonderful Crystal Therapy course has another applicant – this in such a passion of mine so I can’t wait to start next year’s course
  • I’ve made the very important mental leap from self-employed and alone, to self-employed with great help!  This may come as a pleasant surprise to my new and fantastic VA and good friend Sue… we all need support and I’ve finally realised that I do too!

Three amazing outcomes from one decision – it’s wonderful how one decision has increased into these three positive benefits…

So looking forward to the months to come!

H x


My Desire Map Licensee Bonuses

As the dust settles from my announcement that I am now a Desire Map Licensee, I have been thinking of ways to not only make my workshops in 2015 simply amazing, but also why new Licensees might want to buy their License through me.

As with lots of ‘businesses in a box’, the Desire Map has an Affiliate Program and I am more than OK about that.  I actually bought my License through another Licensee based in Canada and feel pretty good about sharing the love.

So as well as the awesome bonuses already on the table as part of the Desire Map Licensee Program, if you sign up through me, then you will receive these three exclusive bonuses:

Bonus #1 – 1:1 Website Review & Advice

Whether you already have a website or are looking to create one, I will advise you on the best way to create an online presence for your Desire Map Workshops including landing pages and capturing email address online.  If you decide to choose my Web Goddess service for your website there are also big discounts for Licensees.

Bonus #2 – Email Newsletter Set Up

I’ll help you set up an email newsletter especially for your Desire Map Workshops to match your current branding as well as email sign up forms to integrate with your website and social media profiles.

Bonus #3 – Facebook eBook

There are plenty of social media providers out there, but Facebook is my speciality.  All Licensees who sign up through my link will receive a copy of my ‘Building a Business with Facebook’ eBook with plenty of tips, tricks and advice for setting up and making the most of a business page and how to create and manage groups – perfect for your Desire Map Workshop attendees.

So, if I can help you with the techie side of getting your Desire Map Workshop info out there – let me know!  This is the sort of stuff that floats my boat and that I enjoy, so I hope I can help you x

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I’ve Jumped and I’m Floating!!

Decisions, decisions, decisions – I’m fine with the small ones but the big ones can be scary!

I made myself slow down, I listened to my heart, I trusted my gut, read my Angel cards (and did all the calculations and business stuff too) then leapt off the edge of my comfort zone and into the unknown.

So, what’s the big decision then???

I’m now one of the very first Desire Map Licensees in the world – yup the whole wide world – EEEK!!  I think that made the decision even scarier for me as I’m putting myself up there with a handful of others to host workshops based on The Desire Map book…

You see, this all started when I discovered The Desire Map almost by chance (oh how synchronicity is something I appreciate so much now!) and wrote about How The Desire Map is changing my life back in June last year.  It really resonated with me and completely changed my focus in life – living for how I want to feel NOW, not how I want others to see me or what I want in 10 years time.  Loved every minute of the book and sorting my own core desired feelings.  I even got the kids involved and they listed some of their CDFs!

So, roll on a few months and I had told just about everyone I knew about the Desire Map and to be honest they were probably sick of hearing it!  So when Danielle LaPorte decided to launch her Book Clubs, I jumped at the chance of sharing it with even more people and became a Book Club Leader.  It was essentially a way to help people who had the book and wanted to learn more but needed someone to guide them through it and help them look at their own core desired feelings with a little gentle prodding from a mentor.  My book club ran twice and I enjoyed it but I’d decided not to run any more as it was a bit hit and miss if people came each week and I really didn’t feel that it matched my way of working either.  A few people still ask for it, but taking out more evenings from my family for no return wasn’t sitting well with me either.

Strangely it was at this point that the Desire Map Licensing Programme came along (hmmm)…. My instant reaction was… “NO” and my inner voice said “It’s too much money”, “I couldn’t do that”, “why would anyone come to me?”, “I’m not good enough to run those”…

Why do negative thoughts always push the positive ones out of the way??

In the past I might have dismissed it and that would have been it.  Negative wins again…  But not any more.  The messages about the License kept appearing on my Facebook newsfeed and in my inbox.  Clients kept telling me how much difference I had made in their lives and that I have helped them on to the right path…

Maybe I can do this??  Maybe people will come to my workshops???

Yes, I can do this!!  I let the negative thoughts go and truly looked in to the programme.  I took the time to assess my finances, check out the offer, really find out what was involved – getting hard facts before making a decision.  I have some wonderful friends who all told me to follow my heart and that I can do anything and a husband who supports me all the way.  It was an amazing couple of days pondering my decision!

So, now I’ve jumped and feel like I’m floating!!  There’s lots of wonderful work ahead as I am still not 100% clear on how I’ll implement it or sell it within my business.  I just know that it will complement my practice hugely and be something unique for this part of the world, as well as having a relaxed and rural vibe.  I can’t wait to get started!!!

H x

If you would like to find out more about my workshops, then the best way is to drop me an email or keep an eye on my Facebook page.  You can also find out more about The Desire Map Licensing Programme and The Desire Map itself by clicking these affiliate links.

A week of wonderful loose ends

I have set myself a goal of blogging each week this year and Wednesday is usually the day I get myself sorted enough during the week to sit down and write. This week however we are already at Friday afternoon and I am only just catching up.  I thought I would miss it, but three people this week have told me they read my blog – this was both surprising and humbling as I always just feel my words just end up in the ether along with so many others.  So here I am… better late than never! And this week’s post is all about the loose ends and tying up of them that has made my blog a bit later than planned this week. Continue reading

I’m inspired – and you can be too!

I have been amazed, humbled and inspired by the comments, messages and shares my recent post received!  If ever there was a way of confirming that I am following the path I am meant to be on then these were it.

You see, I now judge every situation by how it ‘feels’ – part of my Desire Map learning that impacts everything that I do.  It’s something that you can do every day too – just making sure that whatever you do ‘feels’ right and actually listening to those feelings and desires and more importantly, not beating yourself up when you do something that doesn’t feel right!  Since my earlier admin job application, I’ve since seen another one that I know I could do without thinking – but this time I stopped and recognised the feelings I had when reading the advert: my stomach twisted in knots, I got a sinking feeling and felt boxed in and sad – it’s just not right for me.  When I think about working for myself on the other hand, the freedom of choosing my own goals and helping other people to learn about their own well-being I feel all tingly and excited, motivated, inspired and grateful that I can do something I love. Now that’s the feeling I want from a job and from life in general!

My Core Desired Feelings (CDFs) from May 2013

My Core Desired Feelings (CDFs) from May 2013. Still a work in progress but they help me connect to my feelings every day and really make progress on my soul goals.

So, I thought I would share my five CDFs (Core Desired Feelings) with you – and yes, this is a technique from The Desire Map (but you don’t have to do the whole program to make these work for you). I can see that these will change over time, but at the moment it’s these words that really resonate with me and make me feel that I am capable of doing anything I set my heart to.

I paired my CDFs with this awesome Hubble telescope image of the Orion Nebula as that’s where stars are born – and we are all star dust after all!  Getting a list together of the feelings that really mean something to you and pairing them with your favourite image is a really good place to start to connect to your soul desires and what makes you the happy, and therefore productive too. Just make sure you stick it somewhere you can look at it every day to remind you!

My challenge for you is to see if you can narrow down your Core Desired Feelings too and find out which feelings really shake your world and make you want to get out of bed in the morning.  Once you have found them you can then start to change your world to make those a part of your everyday life – and believe me, once you start you will see doors opening in directions you may never have expected them to!

H x

Weekly Words – Openness

I thought it would be nice to share the word that came to me last night when I sat quietly and just let the Universe speak to me.  It took a while, as it often does, to calm the noise in my head – the list of things to do this week, the things I should have done that day and all the other little reminders that sneak in when you are trying to really listen to the Divine.  Finally, when I let all of those thoughts go I ‘felt’ the word that I needed to think about this week: “Openness”.

To me openness is about letting go, being honest, being who I am, letting other people get close to me, giving and receiving and enjoying life without inhibitions.  We have all had our hearts broken at some time or been let down, deceived or hurt, but keeping our hearts open to new experiences, people and feelings is so important for our spiritual and personal growth.  Being true to who we are meant to be in our soul is the reason we are here.

I found this quote and it really resonated with the whole reality of what openness means to me. The image behind is my own taken last year at St Bees in Cumbria.



I will be working on my own openness this week and challenge you to think about yours.

H x